• Skaryon@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Not even sure if it’s (always) that? I’m neither introverted nor especially socially anxious but I hate hate hate taking or placing phone calls. I think (?) It’s because there’s a certain loss of control associated with it given I can’t take my time responding as I can with chat messages.

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      11 months ago

      It’s also the detached nature of voice only, and as you said, synchronous, no time to think much.

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        11 months ago

        For me I prefer talking in person, phone call, messaging, forums.

        The mental toll is also in the same order

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        11 months ago

        Yep, it’s cause it’s voice only and you can’t see facial expressions or gestures. I hate it.