• HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com
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    4 months ago

    I mean marriage is essentially a standard contract where the goverment allows any clergy to act as notaries for some reason. prenups are just modifications to the standard contract.

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      In some countries maybe, but in other countries you need a civil mariage first before you can do an optional church mariage ceremony.

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        4 months ago

        Doesn’t that mean that the church won’t marry you if the government hasn’t made it official?

        That just follows the argument that the religious aspect is simply a voluntary add-on to the actual institution of marriage (a government-approved contract between individuals), which is the opposite of what the original commenter was arguing for.

        Matrimony and marriage are separate already. If you want to get church-married, go for it. If you don’t, don’t. Doesn’t sound hard or like it needs to be changed.

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          4 months ago

          According to Wikipedia, the difference between matrimony and marriage isn’t that clear:

          Marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union, or legal contract between spouses.

          Matrimony is a socially or ritually recognised union between spouses.