It’s a bit different when the person you broke up with got addicted to crack, went on a bender, is living on the streets, whoring themselves out to whoever to get their next hit and doesn’t want to change even after you tell them that they really, really need help … yet you still look at them and think, it’s ok, she’ll change? right? she used to be very hot, super sexy, great sex … all the time! … and she still likes you and she still looks kind of good … maybe if I just talk to her or help with getting crack, she’ll change and be ok again. right?

Yeah. It’s like when people tell me I just gotta move on after my ex called out of the blue and said stuff so mean, I had to block her number.

I try not to obsess about it. But (in our analogy) it was only a week ago. I’m still going through the stages of grief.