Perhaps you’ve noticed. We have reached a tipping point in the country over tipping.

To tip or not to tip has led to Shakespearean soliloquies by customers explaining why they refuse to tip for certain things.

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, customers were grateful for those who seemingly risked their safety so we could get groceries, order dinner or anything that made our lives feel normal. A nice tip was the least we could do to show gratitude.

But now that we are out about and back to normal, the custom of tipping for just about everything has somehow remained; and customers are upset.

A new study from Pew Research shows most American adults say tipping is expected in more places than it was five years ago, and there’s no real consensus about how tipping should work.

  • nutsack@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    it’s not your waiter’s fault that they’re stuck in a scam on the scale of a whole culture

      • Ð Greıt Þu̇mpkin@lemm.ee
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        1 year ago

        It is of you decide they can starve over it.

        When sustainable wage ain’t the minimum wage tipping ain’t a reward for good service, it’s the wage earner’s solidarity tax.

        • Cosmic Cleric@lemmy.world
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          1 year ago

          It is of you decide they can starve over it.

          Wanting them to work somewhere with they are paid fairly does not equate to that you have no problem with them starving.

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              1 year ago

              No, it doesn’t.

              You can wish the best for them, and want them to have a happy and healthy life, and not tip them when they don’t do anything deserving of a tip.

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                1 year ago

                Deserve ain’t the metric when they’re being paid below a living wage.

                You’re arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to “deserve” not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

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                  1 year ago

                  Deserve ain’t the metric when they’re being paid below a living wage.

                  The two are not connected though either.

                  You’re arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to “deserve” not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

                  No, I’m not. Please don’t put words in my mouth, especially emotionally hyperbolic ones.