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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Ordinary-Cry9007 on 2023-07-16 23:05:13.

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) and I have been together for 3 years and we moved in together about a year ago. We lost our virginities to each other and overall our sex life has been great. For the past few weeks I’ve been coming home later than usual due to a project we’ve been working on in my banking firm. My girlfriend expressed how she didn’t like how we had less time for intimacy so she’s been a little quieter than usual. Yesterday I felt something weird when I woke up and I could feel her under the covers giving me a bj. A large part of me felt very uncomfortable in the moment because she’s never done that without my consent so I told her to stop and I left for work right after without talking to her. She’s apologized countless times since then saying that she just wanted some intimacy with me because it’s been lacking lately, so I understood it. But I don’t know how to approach her saying that I think I kind of liked it. I think I was uncomfortable in the moment because it had never happened before, but I think I would enjoy it again, but I still don’t appreciate how she overstepped her boundaries without telling me. How should I approach the situation?