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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/oceangal2018 on 2023-07-17 01:09:27.

Massive squirter and I hate it!

I’m 45 years old, female.

A couple of years ago I lost the ability to orgasm with a partner (likely because of the unpleasant person I was dating and his cheating which made me stop enjoying sex with him).

I’m okay alone but not with someone. It’s caused some concern for me and has changed sex. I would love my current partner to be able to bring me to orgasm - it would make his day.

However, I’m a massive squirter. I can soak the bed so we need to change the sheets every time we have sex. I hate it. He doesn’t hate it but I think deep down it can be annoying.

Please don’t say it’s a great problem to have. It’s not.

The question is whether there’s something I can do to control it or something to stop it? I’ve searched online and found very little. I have tried going to the toilet directly before sex but it does nothing to help. I can’t even tell when it’s going to happen.