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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/abcdefghij_klmnop on 2023-07-17 01:27:44.

Throwaway account bc i’m fairly active on my main and don’t want friends seeing this post.

I want to start by saying that I’m not a virgin, I’ve been having sex since I was 15. I’ve searched Reddit for some answers but the posts I’ve found were mostly for people who hadn’t had sex yet, etc.

I’ve owned a lot of sex toys but mostly vibrators/external stimulation with the exception of two that had a small rounded part for internal g-spot fun. I recently bought my first dildo since I haven’t had sex in 2 years (with the exception of one random time that HURT), but when I tried playing with it, I couldn’t get it in. I was definitely turned on, had lube, etc but it wouldn’t go in past an inch or two without being painful. It kept feeling like I was just hitting a wall I couldn’t get past. I decided to make myself finish using another clitoral stimulation toy first to loosen up, but that didn’t help at all. Eventually I gave up. I got a 6” one because I figured it wasn’t too big, but seeing it in person made me realize it’s bigger than I thought.

Does anyone have tips or advice on what I could do to make this experience better ? I haven’t had anything inside of me in so long and a girl needs some fun 😭 It may sound stupid but it made me feel kind of sad that I couldn’t do it.