• four@lemmy.zipEnglish
    101·
    2 个月前

    Do you decide what you find attractive? Or just observe and notice? Could you decide that something is attractive for you?

      • Mountainaire@lemmy.world
        21·
        2 个月前

        We happen to be attracted to whatever we are attracted to… It’s subconscious, really, perhaps partly stemming back to childhood experienced and parentally instilled values…

    • Velypso@sh.itjust.works
      32·
      2 个月前

      Yes, i decided by observing and noticing.

      That’s how attraction works.

      Im not just by default attracted to one hair style or a specific skin color.

      I observe and notice what attracts me and make a decision.