• collapse_already@lemmy.ml
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    18 hours ago

    They both suck. She initiated the physical confrontation. He went too far. She went back for more grabbing a weapon (the bottle) when it was clear she was out matched. A night in the drunk tank would be good for both of them.

    • deft@lemmy.wtf
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      18 hours ago

      You’re outside your mind thinking she initiated anything. At no moment was he unable to leave. Every action he took was aggressive every action she took was preventative.

      If I see someone reach for a drink and then instantly it is thrown in their face, it’s clear what they expected and why they went for the drink.

      • DrunkenDuckling@lemmus.org
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        2 hours ago

        You’re on crack… In no world is her repeatedly invading his space, even with a dangerous weapon in hand, “preventative”. She kept moving forward, he kept backing up.

        Honestly, people unable to see her aggression because she’s a woman are fucking misogynists.

      • Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de
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        17 hours ago

        He’s insane for escalating so extremely, but that drink went towards his mouth before she grabbed.