I’m a lonely smut writer in Portugal! Feel free to say hello! :3

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  • I actually did this for a while. I bought a sailboat with a friend, moved onto said sailboat, and bummed around for a bit. It’s cheap in bursts, but then you need things. What happens when you have a sudden need for money, like an engine breakdown or a medical emergency? What happens when you suddenly need to travel, like for a funeral or a friend’s wedding?

    What happens when one day you need to afford anything beyond the daily living expenditures and you need to get a job and now employees side eye you for having a year or two gap on your resume? This is possible, obviously, but it’s definitely a lot more than it sounds like on the surface.





  • I tested the waters by telling them I was bisexual and when that didn’t go over well and didn’t show any sign of improving, I just cut them out of my life.

    With my friend, though, my found family, I told him I was bi and he cared so little (I think that he said, ‘oh, okay’ and moved back to making dinner) that it really threw me off. I was expecting like… a whole thing. So when I decided to transition, I was determined to surprise him. I just didn’t say anything until I moved far enough into my transition to feel like I had some results, then I visited without telling him. He straight up didn’t recognize me, haha.











  • That’s fair. As far as I’m aware, Tuxedo laptops have a good history with repairability, and I personally use my devices until they die and are no longer suitable for what I need them for, so I’m not all that worried about being horribly unsustainable with it. I’ve heard Tuxedo laptops are pretty high quality as well, so that kinda covers all my bases.

    For me, there’s the added moral imperative of spending less money on US companies as well, though. It’s kind of a balancing act all around. I’m not judging you for picking what you pick, either, though. Just different strokes and all that.