• 🐱TheCat@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Look I dont mean to blow your mind but misogyny ain’t new and these pua fucks have been saying the same things in different spaces for all of human history. My dads generation was ‘locker room talk’

    So deal with the reality that pua beliefs are as harmful as I say they are, or deny it - I dont give a fuck anymore.

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      1 year ago

      Look I’ve been in a lot of locker rooms.

      First, most of the talk is some vaguely homoerotic stuff about other men’s bodies and what their workout routine is.

      Even when it is more misogynistic, it in no way, shape or form involves casually taking about pedophilia or molesting your relatives.

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        1 year ago

        Here’s donald trump talking on public radio about wanting to fuck his daughter and peeping on kids: https://people.com/politics/donald-trump-howard-stern-interviews-crude-comments-women/

        here he is defending his shit as locker room talk: https://youtu.be/QDjDPRk3nPY?t=33

        Your opinion is fine. but there’s lots of guys like trump and my dad out there that disagree with you. and they chat about peeping on kids and wanting to fuck their daughters

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          Trump also claimed he could destroy a hurricane by nuking it.

          I am telling you, it is not at all common to discuss being a pedophile.

          You’re taking an extreme minority of men and using it as an excuse to villify all men. You know, a full half of the population.

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            1 year ago

            you’re asserting its an extreme minority but Trump’s popularity among men begs to differ. These pedophilia apologists elected the man. I would have agreed with you more before 2016. Mask off moment for american men imo.

            and if you’re not american I’m sorry for assuming, thats the context Im living in and thats the context Im speaking of.

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              42 percent of womem voters voted for Trump. I don’t see you making sweeping statements about them.

              Also

              35 percent of eligible male voters didn’t even vote.

              Among those 18-29, a full 50 percent didn’t vote.

              Among men 14-17, exactly 0 percent voted.

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                1 year ago

                well at least thats still an actual minority, instead of a majority vote like the male side.

                and yes you’re correct the older the person the more skew for trump, which goes back to my point that plenty of these old fucks heard locker room talk about peeping on young girls, and did not bat an eye

                maybe you’re a young guy who is honestly underestimating the misogyny of your elders

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                  You are judging people today for things they had nothing to do with on the basis of their sex.

                  Like how do you not see that as fucked up?

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                    1 year ago

                    You think Im judging all men but I’m only judging men who spread PUA bullshit, which they have responsibility for. Sorry you can’t get it.