• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    9 months ago

    Success Me: “Cool”

    Mistake Me: “Cool”

    My secret? I am preemptively freaked out about failure at all times. When I succeed, I am relieved. When I fail, it’s as I expected.

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      9 months ago

      I too have this stoic-like outlook. Still, mistakes give me that uneasy brooding feeling that it could’ve been prevented, I just had to think more or be a little less absent-minded.

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      9 months ago

      This is honestly a big part of why I retired. The constant “I’m gonna fuck something up” anxiety was really overwhelming at times.