Gentryfried@feddit.uk to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days agoWhat is your least favourite thing about dating or romantic relationships?message-squaremessage-square63linkfedilinkarrow-up156arrow-down10
arrow-up156arrow-down1message-squareWhat is your least favourite thing about dating or romantic relationships?Gentryfried@feddit.uk to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 2 days agomessage-square63linkfedilink
minus-squaresad_detective_man@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up14·2 days agoThe expectation on me to be the instigator/aggressor in all interactions. In either connotation of that statement
minus-squareAskewLord@piefed.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·2 days agoit also means all fault and responsibility is in your camp, and the other person considers themselves blameless in all things.
minus-squaresad_detective_man@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·edit-22 days agoIn certain places and frameworks. It’s happened the other way around where I live to where dudes got to walk free after SAing a child. But either was seems to not be as much of a thing in cultures that are less focused on punitive justice
The expectation on me to be the instigator/aggressor in all interactions. In either connotation of that statement
Yes it’s -_-
it also means all fault and responsibility is in your camp, and the other person considers themselves blameless in all things.
In certain places and frameworks. It’s happened the other way around where I live to where dudes got to walk free after SAing a child. But either was seems to not be as much of a thing in cultures that are less focused on punitive justice