• Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
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      You were just the victim of a drugged gang rape by a tightly knit group of students on your campus that you have to keep going to. Try walking in those shoes for a moment and think about how this experience might shape your responses when your rapists talk to you.

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      The man started by apologizing for “how things went down.” He said his memory is “kinda fuzzy,” and that he and another man feel bad for being too intoxicated to “shut it down and kick people out before it got way out of hand.”

      The woman in the text chain replied that her memory is “super clouded too,” and said they had all been heavily intoxicated.

      She also wrote, “non(e) of the sexual stuff was illegal.” She said she liked being with him and another man. Later, she suggested they smoke together again, “but like leave out the extra 5 billion men and ketamine.”

      You’re not being as clever as you think you are.

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        Thanks, I understand it’s normal to start planning to hang out with your gang rapists ASAP

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          Fawning is a pretty normal trauma response along with freeze, fight, and flight.

          Managed to get yourself banned from the Europe community for being a nazi, eh?

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          I feel like you have not read the actual narrative. You’re just ignoring all of the evidence that shows a lack of consent. And I won’t explain it here, because there’s so much solid reporting already available to you, or anyone who might have a similar view.

          Go read it. Do your homework. Meh.

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            I read the evidence available to the public and formed my own opinion. She regretted it after other women started slut shaming her.

            She was planning to go party at the same frat house, with the same people, to use the same drugs, to get a smaller train run on her and ONLY after her invite was withdrawn did she decide to go crying about events.